Butch Toys

Hey Again All,

So, we know that there is a serious lack of toys for Butch kids. . . when we saw this at a second hand store some time back, we had to take a picture for you!

Anyone raising a little Butch might want to seek one of these out; Now that’s a ‘Barbie’ a Butch could love. . .

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We looked around to see if anyone still makes anything like this – and found a couple that look pretty great:

Little Tyke’s Cook N Grow

Little Tikes Backyard Barbecue Get Out ‘n’ Grill

OK Loves,  We wish you all Chivalrous BBQ-ing and a

SUPER HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!  . . . And yes, you can have one even by yourself – In fact, we dare those of you who are single to treat yourself just like you would want a date to treat you.  Remember, you attract people who mirror what you hold in your own shadows – often in your subconscious – Do you keep attracting relationships that don’t work out?  Find the ways you might still be unforgiving or distrustful of your own deepest darkest self. . . when you mend that stuff, you shift your vibe, and thus you shift the sort of partner you attract.

We know that its no small task to find and heal that shit, but a nice date with yourself isn’t a bad place to start, is it?

Once again, LOVE LOVE LOVE to All,

The BFL Team

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Chivalry is Not Dead

Well, Dear Butches, Femmes and of course Everyone Else who follows us,
We are re-blogging this great one from Mainely Butch; we are for OS all the way and we won’t believe Chivalry is dying – we prefer to think of it as having a renaissance now, thanks, in part, to this Mainely Butch and the rest of you who are sharing your wisdom and tricks of the tade! Read, learn, enjoy and pass it on!

BTW, we LOVE the idea of some sort of Butch Mentoring Program; More on this soon!

With Blessings to All,
The BFL Team

MainelyButch: Private Label

I got to thinking about how the OFOS (old fashioned/old school) Butches/Studs, and the “older” Butches are known more for their chivalry and Butch manners it seems.  These days we hear the horror stories of the younger crowd not having that same old fashioned/old school kind of chivalry and romantic manners.  I wish we had a mentoring program for young Butches, perhaps then these younger Femmes wouldn’t be so attracted to the older Butch personas and be more attracted to those of their own age.

I hear from many Femmes “”…I think what they are trying to say is that they like the old school rules and ways.  Some of which I am about to talk about here.  Be advised, these are just rules/suggestions/ideas that I have found useful in my life when interacting with women.  I am also presenting this from the dynamic of Butch-Femme relationships, this may not apply…

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